Anna and Shila’s wedding at Sun Yat Sen Gardens was an intimate and moving celebration of love, blending deep spiritual moments with meaningful traditions. The day began in the peaceful Scholar’s Courtyard part of the garden, where two Zen priests guided the couple through a mindfulness meditation. This serene moment was enhanced as they each shared heartfelt letters they had written to one another, reading them in quiet reflection. The air was thick with emotion—tears, laughter, and pure connection filled the tranquil space.
The ceremony also beautifully honored Shila’s Indonesian heritage, with special traditions that added rich cultural significance. One such tradition was the slametan, where the couple cut rice (tumpeng) and fed it to their parents, symbolizing respect and gratitude. Another tender moment came when the couple kneeled before their loved ones. A particularly touching scene occurred when the couple knelt in front of Shila’s mother and aunt. Shila’s mother, extending a loving hand on their shoulders, joined hands with them in a powerful gesture of connection and support—signifying both love and blessing in their bond.
The ceremony concluded with an exchange of rings, a kiss, and an eruption of applause from all present—an unforgettable celebration of love, tradition, and unity in the serene beauty of the gardens.
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